When Do You Let Your Kids Out To Play?
So being a new mom, I am sort of learning as I go and have become a pro at other things. Since having the boys, life has certainly had it’s twists and turns. I often times wonder what I did with my time before they were born because it seems like my days are blur. No two days are alike, and there are some days like today, where I just wanted to cry.
I think outdoor play is so important and with the weather getting nicer, we love to be outside as a family. The boys simply adore walking on the path out back, playing in the sandbox, and just being outdoors. I love it because they can burn off all that boy energy that they seem to have. My husband and I were discussing when we should be able to let the boys to play outside on their own. I feel compelled to watch their every move because they are only 2.5 yrs old and since I have two of them, someone is always doing or getting into something they shouldn’t. I see some kids in the neighborhood that are just out playing, and I wonder where their parents are. I simply don’t feel comfortable with letting them out without me or my husband with them. They just seem so not ready to be out playing alone and I don’t intend on letting them for a long time yet. So when do you let them out to play without watching their every move? It just seems scary to me, especially in this crazy world. I am a bit taken back by how young the kids I see playing alone, walking down the sidewalk with no parents in site. My two are just babies to me. Am I just being paranoid?















For us the rules are pretty straight forward. At 5 our son was allowed to play in the yard alone. If he followed the rules as he should, at 6 he was allowed to play alone/with friends on our block (we live on a cul-de-sac). At 7 now he’s allowed to go anywhere in our subdivision but he has to tell us exactly where he’s going and to be home within 5 minutes of the street lights coming on.
My son is 5, my backyard is COMPLETELY fenced in but I still don’t feel comfortable letting him play outside alone. I’m sure I’ll get over it, but for right now I still don’t feel comfortable. Besides, he has more fun when I’m out there with him 😉